July 18, 2018 issue |
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Authors' & Writers' Corner |
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World of difference among individuals | |
Bernard Heydorn | |
Individual differences make a world of difference. Conflicts in life seem to go hand in hand with differences. Some of the differences which stand out include folks who consider themselves liberals while others are conservatives. Some people like town or city life while others, including myself, prefer a life in the country. Some people are dogmatically progressive while others are rigidly regressive, and would like to bring back “the good old days”. |
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Some folks are leaders and some are followers. Some people make things happen, some people watch things happen and some wonder what happened! Some folks like bland food while others prefer spicy food like jerk and curry. Some people like cold weather while others opt for hot weather. Yet others love both seasons and enjoy the changes the seasons bring. I have discovered in teaching dancing that some people are good dancers while others are poor dancers, dragging around two or more left feet with them. Some folks are risk takers while others like to play it safe. Some people are pessimists and others are optimists, viewing a glass as half empty or half full. All along the way there are contradictions. While some individuals are all for family and family ties, there are those amongst them who strongly support the demagogue American President Trump who is destroying families and family ties. Some people, including some members of the radicalized “religious” right are for freedom yet deny basic human rights supporting dictatorship, racism and inhumane practices. Some folks enjoy their own company best (introverts) while others are outgoing and need the companionship of many friends and acquaintances. Some folks are homebodies and like to stay at home while others like myself love to travel and visit new places. Then you have the different types – the do-gooders, the adventurers, the bad-doers, the stingy, the generous, the selfish, the charitable, the concerned and the indifferent. If you take the time to look around in your own life and world, among friends, family and strangers, you will probably see a mixed bag. If you can look into yourself, you can find a mixture too in many circumstances. As they say, circumstances alter cases. Try to walk in another person’s shoes. We all have “cracks”. We are all “tainted” goods. Our belief system, wired in the brain, is the traffic director which points in the direction we travel along life’s highway, be it the good, the bad or the ugly. Some of us may pause to reconsider where we are going or where we have come from, some may even have a change of heart or “conversion” and change direction – hopefully for the better. The only problem is time, for time is not on our side. Some folks on their death bed realize that perhaps they got it all wrong. They should have lived differently, seen things differently, but by then it is just about too late. Perhaps there is redemption, a miracle, and time to put things right but by and large, we die as we have lived. It is true that the aging process slows us down in many respects, including criminality. Despots and dictators – a few come to mind, get worse over time. Let us share and enjoy our differences. We must try to do the best and be the best for who we are, whatever our gifts, talents, dispositions or situations in life. It is the human condition, as cracked as it is. Ironically the cracks let in both the light and the water. If the creeks don’t rise and the sun still shines I’ll be talking to you. |
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‘Poems built to withstand hurricanes’ | |
Eric Merton Roach | |
By Romeo Kaseram Sources for this exploration: Peepal Tree Press; Routledge Encyclopedia of Post-Colonial Literatures in English; The Caribbean Review of Books; An Introduction to the History of Trinidad and Tobago; and Wikipedia. |
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